RESISTANCE IS A BITCH and a real dream killer because it’s so sneaky in its behavior that often we don’t even realize what’s going on meanwhile it’s very effectively holding us back from achieving our goals.
Like when you just can’t bring yourself to make a decision because you keep going back and forth about the pros and cons until the opportunity that was right in front of you evaporates…
Bummer but hey at least you didn’t have to change anything, [brief sigh of relief] until the frustration of having missed out sets in again.
Sometimes this resistance shows up disguised as a need to be right so that we can verify a story that is running in the back of our minds.
See, it’s not happening because ____________fill in the blank.
Told you so, this is what always happens.
Sound familiar?
The truth is that it’s a trick of your mind cleverly designed to distract and stop you from going after your goal until you willingly throw in the towel.
Whatever your story is, if you examine it you’ll find that it’s not serving you at all on the journey of getting what you say you want most.
When you KNOW that this is how your mind works, you can outsmart this inner saboteur simply by NOT playing that game any longer.
HOW?
Focus on your TRUTH and keep moving forward taking action in the pursuit of your goal.
What is your truth?
That you are meant to have what you so deeply desire and that…
Whatever obstacle is in front of you is yet another opportunity for growth, so that you become the person you need to be to fully own whatever it is you’re going after.
Because the person that fills those big shoes is a different person.
You grow into this person by navigating the obstacle course, facing your fears, and taking the action anyway.
As your mentor, I equip you with the tools and help guide you on this journey.
I walk with you up to the line of no return.
What I can’t do is take the action for you.
YOU GOT TO CROSS THAT LINE ON YOUR OWN.
Because let me tell you at that moment when you break through your fear and you get an entirely new result, that’s when the light switches on and that feeling is PRICELESS.
I would NEVER deprive you of this experience: You growing into filling those shoes…
If you are ready for change, connect with me, and let’s talk!
Simona
PS: Not quite ready to talk but you know you want to get started on creating that change? There are 3 sneaky behaviors that are most commonly responsible for sabotaging our success.
Find out if you have one or all of them HERE.
And most importantly discover the step-by-step process of how you can kick them to the curb once and for all.