Ever find yourself in this predicament?
You’d really love to be, do or have something but then there’s the dreaded ‘I can’t because…”
And what comes after because is a mile-long list of explanations as to why you can’t.
What it really comes down to is that it’s a bunch of excuses and lies.
No judgment, hear me on that.
What’s happening is that in this moment you’ve bought into a story that your subconscious mind has put forth to keep you safe, sound and exactly where you are because you’re about to step into uncharted territory like…
- Going after your big vision not matter how i-m-possible it might seem in this moment…
- Stepping out boldly AS YOU in your life & business…
- Raising your prices, asking for the money, the promotion, the job, the recognition, the acknowledgement…
- Setting boundaries in your relationships & friendships…
- Taking a stand for YOUR desires and your right to express yourself as who you truly are…
- Saying NO when you’re not up for something without having the need to explain or giving in and saying yes at your own expense…
All because of what you believe about yourself and the story that you’ve created around this belief in your mind.
Here’s how this shows up:
You find yourself constantly worrying about what other people might say or think about you and let that influence your decisions…
You fear abandonment or loss of love if you communicate what you want to be, do or have…
You keep telling yourself it’s good enough, or that’ll do when deep down inside you long for more of what life has to offer…
You dim your light and settle for less instead of claiming what you TRULY desire..
You might even compare yourself with others who seem more ‘together‘…
Maybe you feel a sense of
Frustration
Bitterness
Anger
Longing and unfulfillment as a result.
BUT…
Above all, you wish it’d be easier and you’re tired of putting yourself last and settling for mediocre when you know deep down inside that you’re destined for GREATNESS.
Good news!
It can be when you shift your thinking.
In truth, there are 5 things that need to happen.
1. MAKE YOURSELF A PRIORITY IN YOUR LIFE
Nope, that is not selfish it’s the #1 requirement to be successful.
Know what you want, why you want it and then go for it unapologetically.
2. ASSUME 100% PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY FOR EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS IN YOUR LIFE
This moves you out of blame and victimhood into solution based thinking and gets you in touch with your resourcefulness to create the life you want to have.
3. LET GO OF SHAME & GUILT
Break free from these two chains that are the real culprits of why you’re stuck in this predicament.
Own the fact that there’s nothing wrong with you, you’re perfectly imperfect the way you are and then operate from this place.
4. RAISE YOUR STANDARDS
Determine how you want to live in terms of the people, places, and things that you surround yourself with and then make a decision to live that way. Yes, that means letting go. Do so with love and compassion.
5. TAKE ACTION
Consistently and persistently take the RIGHT action in the direction of the goals that will manifest your vision.
Want to learn more about HOW to get there?
Then I invite you to join me on Oct 23rd for a FREE audio training about
How you can step into your EMPOWERED SELF in all areas of your life and YES, that includes making MORE MONEY and having more fulfilling relationships.
HERE are all the details how you can join me…
I guarantee you that when you apply these 5 principles in your daily life, this will show up positively in your bank account and in your relationships.
Simona Ksoll is a marketing strategist and mentor for small business owners and people who want to bring their big inner vision to life. Follow her on Facebook,LinkedIn and join her private Facebook Community.